Im playing on The hidden forest, tried other servers but with the same outcome, i go random LD.

Unless there are a lot of complaints from other users on the server, it will be on your end. You could be having high latency issues. You said that Ping 4 Life showed no disconnects but did the ping to google.com go really high on the response times before you went LD?

No, was 21ms all day long.

The only thing I can think of is maybe somehow your client is silently crashing on you. Maybe check your debug log in your eq folder.

couple of other options you can try.

1. Make sure your network card drivers are up to date.

** This step makes changes directly to your registry **
2. Download SG TCP optimizer from http://www.speedguide.net/downloads.php and set it to Optimal but can use default then make sure to reboot your computer.

Back when i use to do tech support i used tcp optimizer a ton to fix speed/connection issues on people computers and never had it cause any harmful effects personally.