well when i stat up the shortcut it goes to SOE's server not the emu's and i do have the host file the way it should be

Did you already do a partial patch to SoE by getting the Launchpad and all that?

Ya, double check your host file. It gets overwritten with the SOE one when you start the patch. You may wind up needing to reinstall titanium anyway lol.

i feared that because for some reason the only disc that is missing is the 1st disc i have every other one =\