Can you help?
 

ok... I have almost tried every guide out there, I have installed and uninstalled a lot of stuff, and I can only get the minilogin to work... but that isnot what I want....I want to be able to have a server that everyone will enjoy, and like to be a part of... and if anyone can help me buy linking me the BEST guide that they know of, I will be really, really happy, lol.

Depends a lot on which platform you're running, what version of eqemu, etc. If you post all your vitals and the output you're getting on here, people may be willing to help.

Otherwise, hit up the Tutorials and How-To forum, or the Guides section on the main page (back before the forums)