Standerd server....
 

A new standerd server came up on the server select screen, Woohoo, But when I try to join it, it keeps on saying - Your patcher is not conected - and it wont let me in, IS there something i have to do with my eq files to be able to get on the server?

Everything has been beta since the new Login Server went live.
Just be patient and wait for them to fix the numerous bugs and errors, or hope that "your" server will show up on the new server select soon.