Just tell me where get the most newest patch?
 

I just need the patch package to download, because my eq autodownload program is so slow

The only place we're allowed to refer you to is the SOE sanctioned patcher. If you're having problems with that, talk to SOE.

Any other spot to DL it from is "warez" in the eyes of both the forum mods and SOE, so we can't talk about that here.