Not Connecting to my server
 

I have one comp for the server and one for the game itself. I am using minilogin on the comp for playing and using the shortcut to everquest with the added 'patchme' is this the wrong way to play on minilogin? How do I connect to my server?? The login asks for a account and password but in the guide it says you only need to put in an account name. AHh help please! Ive been working on this for like 10 hrs!

when I click minilogin I get: "....server mode: minilogin, Login server listening on port 5999, Starting factory reader, starting factory writer" then nothing happens.When do I get to type in the account I made for myself? ------ also in the ini under server name do I put eq, since thats what it is on MySQL or the name I gave it editing my eqemu_config?