Started my own server
 

I installed the server and linked it to my mysql DB. The server runs fine. I can even connect to it with the admin tool etc.. Only thing is i never was able to run the patcher since ive known this exists only since last night hehe.

If i want to connect to my own server localy and I never patch my game. What can I do?

You can't use the patcher; it's down. You need EQ Live files from months ago (I haven't been able to try for ages). There is no ETA. You must just wait for the server to come up.