Help me I'm a neeeewb
 

Where do I download/sign-up for this EverQuest Emulator???

You are signed up, its your forum user/pass. The rest of the info you need is on the main page (www.eqemu.net). If you just wanna connect, you just need to change your eqhost.txt file:

[Registration Servers]
{
"eqlogin1.eqemu.net:5999"
}
[Login Servers]
{
"eqlogin1.eqemu.net:5999"
"eqlogin2.eqemu.net:5999"
}