Here's what is my prob/think it might be almost fixed
 

C:\program files\everquest\patcher\eqgame.exe So anyways i try and boot it up...no error, no nothing, EQ doesnt even start up....Anyone know whats going on? I tried to boot up the EQEmu patcher, changed host file....nothing happens whats going on???

Why would eqgame.exe be in a patcher dir?

Both eqgame.exe and patch.exe should be in C:\program files\everquest

Unless you made a COMPLETE copy of EQ into the patcher sub dir.

Reinstall patcher to your EVERQUEST folder. NO PATCHER!! When you install, it asks where to put it. It automatically has the wrong answer there. Pick the right place.