Yep..You are way off. You need to determine if you are 0.6.1DR1 or 0.6.1DR2...
If you can play on PEQ then you are 0.6.1DR1..
Then go here..
http://www.steelpsychos.com/index.php?link=eqemu.php
I dont know about the data base..Im using the one listed in the 0.6.1DR2 tutorial. Seems to work OK..(But there are errors in zone.exe/ect. so I might have to change that. But gameplay is correct.)I just got it all going tonight!