Here is their main site:
http://www.shardsofdalaya.com/
It's a pretty fun server, and a lot of work was put into it. I used to play a lot on it before I started my own server, and it is worth a try. I am not sure if it is now independent from the rest of the eqemu scene. However sod has their own login server, so you will have to check with them to see how they activate accounts.