hehe sorry about the spamming. going to give this a whirl now and will let you know how it goes hopefully it all works out

tahnks again for helping me so much.
ps. should i have the emulator software installed on the client pc with all settings off such as database/quests and all that? and everything looks like once i have this answer should work or at least i hope its showing up as 1 server and listening on that port and through the 192.168.1.4 ip which it wasnt doing before so we should be good i will wait for that answer tho so i dont mess anything up till now
thanks again