[Angelox]

If you're behind a router, then the router has it's own firewall protection for the LAN (for what it's all worth) .
You can turn off your windows firewall. are those files you posted. just as we see them? (xxx.xxx.x.xxx)

here's my working mini-login eqemu_conf.xml

<?xml version="1.0">
<server>
        <world>
                <shortname>minilogin</shortname>
                <longname>BlackwaterMiniLogin</longname>
                
                <!-- Only specify these two if you really think you need to. -->
		<address>192.168.2.100</address>
		<localaddress>127.0.0.1</localaddress>
		
		<!-- Loginserver information.  -->
        <loginserver>
		<host>192.168.2.100</host>
		<port>5999</port>
		<account></account>
		<password></password>
        </loginserver>

                <!-- Sets the shared key used by zone/launcher to connect to world -->
                <key>garbledcharshere</key>

                <!-- Enable and set the port for the HTTP service. -->
                <http port="9080" enabled="true" mimefile="mime.types" />
        </world>

                <!-- Database configuration, replaces db.ini. -->
        <database>
                <host>localhost</host>
                <port>3306</port>
                <username>eq</username>
                <password>eq</password>
                <db>ax_peq</db>
        </database>
</server>

Where you see 192.168.2.100, it has to be changed to the IP of the PC you are using.
where yyou see ax_peq, it has to be the MySql database you are using (peq, ax_peq , eq, etc.)

I don't think you need config.ini, but just incase, here's mine;

Database]
host=127.0.0.1
user=eq
password=eq
database=ax_peq
compression=off

[General]
quests=C:\EQEmu\Quests\

wordwrap=1

Here's me loginserver.ini;

### --- This file tells world.exe what loginserver to connect to.
### --- Leave the account and password field BLANK.

### --- Public Login is un-supported as is LAN playing. We reccomend using the EQEmu.net Loginserver ALWAYS.

### --- NOTE: Starting 6-1-2002, you can no longer use the word "Server" in worldname.
### --- NOTE2: the word "Server" is added to each server automaticly.

# READ README.TXT

[LoginServer]
loginserver=192.168.2.100
#loginserver2=newlogin1.eqemulator.net
loginport=5999
#loginport2=5999
worldname=BlackwaterMiniLogin
worldaddress=192.168.2.105
locked=false
#account=
#password=

[WorldServer]
Defaultstatus=
Unavailzone=

[ChatChannelServer]
worldshortname=
chataddress=
chatport=

[LoginConfig]
ServerMode=MiniLogin
ServerPort=5999

If this helps, then it's because all this has been repeated a bazillion times in these forums, and you need to learn how to use the "search" option in the pull-down menu here
<search> is very powerful, and will provide you, as a newbee, with all the answers you need - and is much faster than waiting/hoping for a reply-post.