I would suggest using this guide. It still works, just make sure you use the right version of the emulator.
http://www.eqemulator.net/wiki/wikka...=ws70845mysql5
This will help you set up the MiniLogin so you can play on your own LAN.
I am working on a updated guide for the wiki, It will be up there tommorw hopefully so if you want you can check back then. Otherwise, Kayots guide works perfect.