[Angelox]

Here's my config files, you need for mini-login:

<?xml version="1.0">
<server>
        <world>
		<shortname>classic</shortname>
		<longname>'-=Angelox Classic Challenge=-</longname>
                
                <!-- Only specify these two if you really think you need to. -->
		<address>192.168.2.105</address>
		<localaddress>127.0.0.1</localaddress>
		
		<!-- Loginserver information.  -->
        <loginserver>
		<host>192.168.2.105</host>
		<port>5999</port>
		<account></account>
		<password></password>
        </loginserver>

                <!-- Sets the shared key used by zone/launcher to connect to world -->
                <key>kowe99888kkk77iwud</key>

                <!-- Enable and set the port for the HTTP service. -->
                <http port="9080" enabled="true" mimefile="mime.types" />
        </world>

                <!-- Database configuration, replaces db.ini. -->
        <database>
                <host>localhost</host>
                <port>3306</port>
                <username>eq</username>
                <password>yourpassword</password>
                <db>ax_classic</db>
        </database>
</server>

and the LoginServer.ini which is only needed by MiniLogin;

### --- This file tells world.exe what loginserver to connect to.
### --- Leave the account and password field BLANK.

### --- Public Login is un-supported as is LAN playing. We reccomend using the EQEmu.net Loginserver ALWAYS.

### --- NOTE: Starting 6-1-2002, you can no longer use the word "Server" in worldname.
### --- NOTE2: the word "Server" is added to each server automaticly.

# READ README.TXT

[LoginServer]
loginserver=192.168.2.105
#loginserver2=newlogin1.eqemulator.net
loginport=5999
#loginport2=5999
worldname='-=Angelox Classic Challenge=-
worldaddress=192.168.2.105
locked=false
#account=
#password=

[WorldServer]
Defaultstatus=
Unavailzone=

[ChatChannelServer]
worldshortname=
chataddress=
chatport=

[LoginConfig]
ServerMode=MiniLogin
ServerPort=5999

For now, disable any firewalls you have, untill you can pinpoint your problem. Tell me more aout what you have;
WindowsXP? , Two machines in a LAN ( a client connecting to a server)? Router should be no problem , unless you were trying to bring a friend in from outside your LAN.