Goodness what a PAIN that was! A few messing around, I finally got the syntax to change the LoginType from public to minilogin.
update variables set value='minilogin' where value='public';
But still, that didn't do the job! I don't know exactly what was different with mine and Crabclaw's ini but I went ahead and copied what he said and just changed his IP to my comp's IP. I hope this helps you. Credit goes to Crabclaw and John Adams.
http://eqemulator.net/forums/showthread.php?t=20772