[ksmith08]

Here you are set up like your going to play locally, and only on your server (emu and client)

<!-- only specify these two if you really think you need to. -->
		<address>192.168.1.113</address>
		<localaddress>127.0.0.1</localaddress>

Here you are set up for WAN play (eqemulator login server)

<!-- loginserver information -->
		<loginserver>
			<host>eqemulator.net</host>
			<port>5998</port>
			<account></account>
			<password></password>
		</loginserver>

Make the 192 address your public IP, and change the 127 to your 192 address, and see if that helps. This is assuming that your not going to use minilogin.