Your address line is wrong. how you have it now would be if you were using minilogin, but your loginserver is listed as eqemulator.net. If you are trying to host it via public login server, then the address line MUST be the IP your cable/dsl modem is using, NOT a private IP such as 192.168.xxx.xxx.
Example:
<address>12.345.6.78</address>
<localaddress>192.168.5.15</localaddress>