Which guide are you using? I've been kicking around these forums for a few years, so when I set up my most recent server I kinda went on my old autopilot rather than following the guide to the T.
Ohhhhhh I see now.
Alright, here's why things aren't working for you. The guy that wrote the guide you are using wasn't very clear about a few certain things. Try using this guide:
http://www.eqemulator.net/wiki/wikka...ka=ws992mysql5
The only thing that guide won't tell you how to do is set up minilogin, but combined with what I posted earlier in this thread it should work just fine for you.