If you are just trying to play, here is the playguide:
http://www.eqemulator.net/wiki/wikka...akka=PlayGuide
If you want to run a server, then the guides are still not perfectly accurate. We are hopefully going to get the website moved to some new web hosting soon. When that happens, I am hoping we can get the wiki all moved into Media Wiki and then have a few people work on it to get the guides all reformatted properly and also get them updated as well. At the very least, it is important that we get a current working server setup guide going. But, I have no ETA on when any of this is going to happen.
Also, I wanted to note that since you have SoF and SoF is still pretty new and still being finalized, you won't be able to log into all servers. You should be able to try any of them, but if you can't get in game, the server doesn't have it enabled yet. For now, I would recommend trying PEQ (The Grand Creation) or Storm Haven, as they both have SoF enabled and they both stay very up-to-date with the code. So, until more servers start updating, your best bet will be those 2 servers.