Here is the playguide:
http://www.eqemulator.net/wiki/wikka...akka=PlayGuide
And if you want to run a server, this is probably the easiest way to get setup:
http://www.eqemulator.net/forums/showthread.php?t=28190
Also, you mentioned downloading Titanium, but EQEmu only works if you install either Titanium or Secrets of Faydwer directly from the retail disks. Even if you downloaded it from SOE, it won't be the correct version.
EDIT: Damn, beat me to it
