EqEmuLoginServer is only used if you are creating your own server. If you just want to play you can follow this:
http://www.eqemulator.net/wiki/wikka.php?wakka=PlayGuide.
Basically change your eqhost.txt file (in your everquest folder) to look like this
Code:
[LoginServer]
Host=new.eqemulator.net:5998
Set your shortcut to be: %foldertoyoureverqest%\eqgame.exe patchme
Change the text between the %'s to be the path to your everquest folder.
You also need to create an account under your forum account to play.
Just click 'UserCp' at the top of this page, and then click on Login Server Account. or try this link:
http://www.eqemulator.net/forums/profile.php?do=loginserver
Thats it to play. You may need to make sure that placing the eqemuloginserver files in your eq folder didn't overwrite any files but I don't think it does.
There are some other issues like the AMD x64 dual core one that you may need to research to fix but thats all that is needed.