Ok, now when I right click the Everquest application in that folder, I can't mess with the "target" or whatever. It says to change the following like this.
Right Click the EverQuest Shortcut the Install Made. Goto: Properties
Now Change Target
From: "C:\Program Files\Sony\EverQuest\EverQuest.exe"
To: "C:\Program Files\Sony\EverQuest\eqgame.exe" patchme -w
And when I right click mine this shows up.
