Here is a link to the normal playguide:
http://www.eqemulator.org/wiki/wikka...akka=PlayGuide
It doesn't cover SoD yet, because we have been waiting for the official Login Server to support SoD before updating the wiki for it. But, if you want to use the SoD client, you can read the following thread about the alternate Login Server that can be used for SoD for now:
http://www.eqemulator.org/forums/showthread.php?t=31085
Unfortunately, if you don't already have Titanium or SoF installed, there is no way to register your account on the alternate tsahosting.net Login Server. The only real option atm is to have someone register it for you by logging in with Titanium or SoF and using the #setlsinfo command for you. Then, you just do it again when you get in game to change your password to something private so they can't use your account again.