This guide isn't perfect, but most of the info is good:
http://www.eqemulator.net/wiki/wikka.php?wakka=ValesEQ
Other than that, there is some good info around the wiki too.
Though, I think you may have a hard time trying to get your server going on Windows 7 64bit. I have heard of people having issues on Windows 7 as well as other 64bit OS's, so combining the 2 should make it a bit of a challenge.