Make sure the line "DatabaseUserPassword=" in your eqemulogin.ini file is the actual password and not just "xxx" if that isn't the actual password
This also applies to your eqemu_config.xml file - if the password isn't actually "xxx" change it where appropriate.
Under the <loginserver> heading in your eqemu_config.xml file change the following:
<account>Vasadise</account>
to
<account></account>
and
<password>xxx</password>
to
<password></password>