I see in your eqemu_config.xml you have the account and password left blank. Do you have something in there or is it blank?
A blank server select screen will result when your eqemu_config.xml account and password doesn't match the account and password in tblserveradministration. Putting in a password and account here will follow your entries in tblworldserverregistration.
If you leave the password and account with no entry in your eqemu_config.xml file like you are showing here, your server will default to using the eqemu_config.xml entries for server shortname and longname. The server will display as a normal server.
The following entry in your eqemu_config.xml is something I am not using and not familiar with.
Code:
<!-- Sets the ip/port for the tcp connections. Both zones and console (if enabled). Defaults are show -->
<tcp ip="192.168.0.198" port="9000" telnet="disable"/>