The EQLoginServer message "Client disconnected from the server..." is absolute normal, even if the login is successful, so dont worry about that.
Reading your post, I get the feeling youre mixing up server and user logins. You say your server is logging in, so far so good, but you need an entry in the table [tblloginserveraccounts] created with the sql-script in the guide you followed:
Code:
INSERT INTO tblLoginServerAccounts (AccountName, AccountPassword, AccountEmail, LastLoginDate, LastIPAddress) VALUES('Admin', sha('password'), 'admin@somewhere.com', now(), '127.0.0.1');
To verify your login info is entered correctly, you can modify your login.ini to
[options]
unregistered_allowed =
FALSE
Otherwise you will always get to the server select screen, but you will never know if youre supposed to be there.