Based on the error you received, it seems the information in your eqemu_config.xml file is probably not filled out correctly/completely.
Code:
<loginserver>
<host>localhost</host>
<port>5998</port>
<account></account>
<password></password>
</loginserver>
Where it says account and password you need to put the account/password that is in the tblserveradminregistration. (default account/password entered is Admin/Password if nothing was changed)