The only supported versions are either Titanium from the Retail CDs, SoF from the Retail CDs or DVDs, or SoD/UF from Steam. The amazon or Live downloads will not work and there is no way for you to make them work. The play guide linked from the main page of this site includes all of the details.
http://www.eqemulator.org/wiki/wikka...akka=PlayGuide