He is incorrectly giving you instructions for using your own login server. you are not running your own log in server, do not follow those instructions. Huppy's guide is correct.
If you can connect but remote people can not, then you simply have port forwarding issues to resolve.
edit: also change the default status in your config file to 0 unless you plan on giving everyone access to some # commands that you are not aware of.
edit 2: here is my config (with account logins removed
Code:
<?xml version="1.0">
<server>
<world>
<shortname>STS</shortname>
<longname>Sorvani's Test Server</longname>
<!-- Only specify these two if you really think you need to. (read: You don't) -->
<!-- <address>some.server.com</address> -->
<!-- <localaddress>192.168.0.5</localaddress> -->
<!-- Loginserver information. Defaults shown -->
<loginserver1>
<host>eqemulator.net</host>
<port>5998</port>
<account>eqemu world server login</account>
<password>eqemu world server password</password>
</loginserver1>
<loginserver2>
<host>url to my server</host>
<port>5998</port>
</loginserver2>
<loginserver3>
<host>login.peqtgc.com</host>
<port>5998</port>
<!-- <account></account>
<password></password> -->
</loginserver3>
<!-- Server status. Default is unlocked -->
<!-- <locked/> -->
<!-- <unlocked/> -->
<!-- Sets the ip/port for the tcp connections. Both zones and console (if enabled). Defaults are shown -->
<tcp ip="localhost" port="9000" telnet="disable"/>
<!-- Sets the shared key used by zone/launcher to connect to world -->
<key>big long random key here</key>
<!-- Enable and set the port for the HTTP service. Defaults are shown -->
<http port="9080" enabled="true" mimefile="mime.types" />
</world>
<!-- Chatserver (channels) information. Defaults shown -->
<chatserver>
<host>url to my server</host>
<port>7778</port>
</chatserver>
<!-- Mailserver (in-game mail) information. Defaults shown -->
<mailserver>
<host>url to my server</host>
<port>7779</port>
</mailserver>
<zones>
<defaultstatus>0</defaultstatus>
<!-- Sets port range for world to use to auto configure zones -->
<ports low="7000" high="7500"/>
</zones>
<!-- Database configuration, replaces db.ini. Defaults shown -->
<database>
<host>localhost</host>
<port>3306</port>
<username>root</username>
<password>mysql_password</password>
<db>peq</db>
</database>
<!-- Launcher Configuration -->
<launcher>
<!-- <logprefix>logs/zone-</logprefix> -->
<!-- <logsuffix>.log</logsuffix> -->
<!-- <exe>zone.exe or ./zone</exe> -->
<!-- <timers restart="10000" reterminate="10000"> -->
</launcher>
<!-- File locations. Defaults shown -->
<files>
<!-- <spells>spells_us.txt</spells> -->
<!-- <opcodes>opcodes.conf</opcodes> -->
<!-- <logsettings>log.ini</logsettings> -->
<!-- <eqtime>eqtime.cfg</eqtime> -->
</files>
<!-- Directory locations. Defaults shown -->
<directories>
<!-- <maps>Maps</maps> -->
<!-- <quests>quests</quests> -->
<!-- <plugins>plugins</plugins> -->
</directories>
</server>