1. edit your config to lock the server, rather than have it unlocked. only people with a certain access level can log in when it is locked. there is info in the comments of eqemu_config.xml.full on how to go about that.
2. i've given you a step by step on how to set up the login server in my last post in this thread
http://www.eqemulator.org/forums/sho...t=36279&page=2