[Davood]

oh and im not sure waht you mean by "shared hosting" but i can tell you that i have a "business internet" connection (for my business), and am not restricted by any of the residential customer problems (no ports are blocked by my isp.. however i do block ports and other stuff on my firewall haha)

i do see where you are coming from with the email confirmation issues. and it could become a problem if someone manages to get through all of my tricks and traps adn send emails from my network somehow and gets me blacklisted on spamhaus.org or somewhere.

i am going to save your suggestion in a "jhust in case" folder adn i will explore it if i need to later on

thank you for the suggestion tabasco.