I don't do support for how to get a server running anymore, However I'll answer some of what you asked.
Yes you can create your own server, and MQ 6 box or MQ 100 box if you wanted.
As for how, most recent guide I see is
http://www.eqemulator.net/wiki/wikka...rverSetupGuide
Try and follow that (assuming your on windows)
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