It's gonna want to look like this
<server>
<world>
<shortname>Some server</shortname>
<longname>Some big server</longname>
<!-- Only specify these two if you really think you need to. (read: You don't) -->
<address>where you put local ip</address> -->
<localaddress>where you put your computers IP</localaddress> -->
<!-- Loginserver information. add Admin and Password for private login to show up --->
<loginserver1>
<host>Where you put your computers iP</host>
<port>5998</port>
<account>admin account name</account>
<password>admin account Password</password>
</loginserver1>
thats the basic idea of it, and you forward your ports aswell. nobody can get into your server without you giving them your local IP address to put in there eqhost file.