So it looks like I may have resolved the issue and ill post my theory on how it worked out.
So instead of adding in both the address and local I only added the address in.
<!-- Only specify these two if you really think you need to. (read: You don't) -->
<address>gamegenie.servebeer.com</address> -->
<localaddress></localaddress> -->
If I had to guess There must be some kind of conflict with adding in your local address along with where you would put it for the private login.
I also updated my login_opcodes to the newest ones.
So im unsure which one did the trick but its one of the two. Ill try adding in the localaddress and see if it stops working again, if It does than I know thats where the issue lies
Edit: Also if you don't add an address in under <address> (for your public ip) then there is a registration error with the private login and it defaults to your local IP. So that may be why it doesn't accept outside connections