I've run and currently run free services for years. Going on 9 or 10.
I always treat people with respect and profesionalism. Sure, I'm not saying there aren't some 13 year old punks who get under my skin. But I've learned over the years that there is one thing that gets under people's skin more than anything.
When someone is mad at you, and sends/posts something rude, obnoxious, replying in a polite, professional manner pisses them off. They want to egg you on. They want you to get bent out of shape. Even when it does, never let it show. *That* is the best way to fight back.
I'll expect that you guys might figure this out one day.
However, I don't think because you work on this project, throw money and time at it, gives you a green light to be a dick to people.
Going around threatening to close the project, or saying "I've put money into this" is a valid response. No one is making you. You chose to do it. Your decision. Not mine. If you choose to spend your money on something else, that's (again) your decision.
However, I am a proponent of being somewhat polite even under attack. I don't think that asking a project lead to not run around acting like a spoiled a brat is a big deal.
I love coming to the page and checking for updates. I do it all the time, and I don't even play EQ, I'm interested in the project and advancements. However, when I log on and I see posts like today's (and I've seen many) I get a sour taste in my mouth and think, "Who are these people, that they are so rightous?"
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