Glad to see you posting. As you can probably see, thats the problem with 70% of the users.
No one posts. They only post if they want to make sure they don't lose their account to a wipe.
If more users would start posting, and more idiots will not sign up, it would be a jolly world.
To answer the poll. I play EQEMu because its customizable and its a cool project to hang around with. The community is fine and has been fine for almost 1 and a half years now. Just stick to the devs good side (aka, don't pull any stupid stuff), and you'll be all set.