1) You need to have a friend, who is not on AOL goto
http://eqemu.org/login
2) Have your friend create a new account.
or
Have a friend enter your information and click the lil link at the top of that page that says "Reset Authentication"
3) Have your friend log into EQEmu with the account he just created within 15min.
After your friend logs in for the first time you should have no problems.
**edited to be correct**