you dont
need to run the WR patcher every time you run eq...you can make a shortcut.
heres a link to find out how you can make a shortcut
http://www.eqemulator.net/forums/viewtopic.php?t=9649
its under #4
so even if the WR patcher is saying pass/username is wrong you should still be able to play.
i also play on WR (im in Impact as well actually lol :P Xask/Jarlaxle hehe) and i have had this happen to me when trying to run the patcher so i just run it from a shortcut
hope this helps you get past the patcher prob