I can't log in. I don't know what to do.

[Legoran]

I installed all the EverQuest expansions and everything, I patched, I went through all the steps.. I changed my EQhost, made it read-only.. I put a shortcut to EQgame on my desktop with 'patchme' in the target box.. I did everything.. But when I try to log in.. It just stays at the window that says 'Logging into the server. Please wait....' and it never leaves it. I don't know what to do. I've tried just about everything I could think of. Please help. My AIM screen name is Friend Fiend... If you find it would be easier to help me there.