Problem with server login, wont connect

[Pherrot]

I am unable to connect. I do not get a timed out error it just keeps trying to connect. The faq says this is because I have a patched launcher but the one I am using is straight from everquest titanium. It has been tricky because I also have the full everquest installed and installed titanium to a seperate folder and ran everything from there. I can get it to lauch, login, then connecting...and nothing...I have never patched this new version of everquest and I am bypassing the patcher using "patchme". my eqhost.txt file is saved correctly.

Thanks!