If you are not computer literate as you say and if your not going to have internet soon for support, id reccomend just getting the peq repack, from here:
http://www.georgestools.chrsschb.com//
The program should do all the work of setting up the server for you. I don't believe it comes with the server maps though. Your going to have to google tortisesvn and download/install that program. Then you will have to right click on your maps folder in the install directory wherever the peqrepack installed to, click SVN Checkout, and put in the following URS:
http://eqemu-maps.googlecode.com/svn/trunk/
This will start downloading all the missing maps.
To get your client to access your loginserver your going to want to change the eqhost file to read localhost:5999