Ok I did as Shawn said with the localhost in the world address and used the files configed as shown above.  I start minlogin.exe, the world.exe, then the boot5zones.bat.  I waited for each to fully complete before starting each process.  I then ran EQLogin.  It asked me where everquest lived and I pointed to eqgame.exe.  I then selected the option to run the server as local using old defaults I think it was.  Basically if you use the new default it tries 15999 as the default port for the login server where as the old uses 5999.  I click on the "everquest" button at the bottom.  It gives me a pop up saying eqgame return a code of 24 and I hit ok.  Then I get to the login and do eqemu eqemu to get in.  I select my server and it loads all the textures and such.  Finally I got a character select screen and I created a new char.  I hit login and in a few minutes later I was in EQ.  Only real problem I have been having is ocassionally the server will disconnect on me after a few seconds; especially if I don't make any movements or commands.  I also had an issue with oasis where I did a #zone oasis and a few min later I was disconnected.  I log back in only to be disconnected again.  I looked at one of the zone logs and it was saying it couldn't find some oasis.cfg , it returned an opcode and then shut down the zone.
I got the EQlogin.zip from here: 
http://www.geocities.com/scruffyeq/
The link to eqw.zip from the files area has been down for days so I searched the board for another method to start EQ and found a post with the link.  
Do a search for EMULaunch.  I tried to post the link but the board software didn't like the question mark in it.
If there is any more info you need please let me know.