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		So it is either one of two issues, i have a small amount of ram on my virtual server so i added 2gb of swap space, but what I think the actual issue was i was installing LAMP prior to installing this which changed and tweaked a few dependencies, you should not install apache through the lamp with tasksel install everything individually  after you install the server, I have ran into other issues and think i am going to make a full guide after this giving my experience i was able to get it to install on 18.04 and 21.04 and I think if I jumped straight into the install on any other version that I would not have issues.  
 
the issue i am running into now is i can get to the char screen (even though it says server locked) but i get a zone error when trying to load in. 
		
	
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	
		
		
	
	
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