alright, this deals with mysql.exe - 
i have finished everything and when i try to type 
GRANT ALL PRIVILEGES on *.* to '%'@localhost IDENTIFIED BY '%';  
i get an error message reading 
ERROR 1045: Access denied for user '@127.0.01' (Using password: no)
does anyone know what this means? i read through the GRANTING AND REVOKING  part of the manual at 
www.mysql.org but i still cant figure it out, can someone help please?
edit --  i just found and followed the 1045 fix instructions at 
http://www.kotcb.9f.com/1045fixes.htm and it didnt work for me :(