Want to set up server

[Bdiddy]

I'm not sure if this is the correct place for this and I apologize if it isn't.
But I want to set up my own server. I want to set it up on the PC I use for everyday computer use.

The pc is a is an AMD athalon 2 X4 2.6ghz, 6gb ram. Windows 7 64bit
It does just have factory nvidia graphics card, but I can play 3 instances of eq normally on it.
I currently have an un-patched copy of EQ Titanium Ed. installed.

I really only want to set up a server for myself and maybe down the road a couple friends. I have a novice IT background in programming and sql coding. I am currently going to school for both, but am not means an expert.

As of right now I have nothing on my computer to get this up and running so could someone point me in the proper direction to get this setup, what software(it appears some version of perl and mySql are going to be needed but I do not know which) Along with all the editors, databases, etc. Seems everything I've read is for a complete windows or linux server and I don't know if I can use those instructions or not.

If possible I would like to be able to edit xp, spawns, drops, etc. But if this can't be done w/a basic setup please let me know and I will start w/what can be done.

Thanks