Checking the size isn't the best way to tell which version you are running. The best way is go to into your Everquest/Logs/ folder and open the file named dbg.txt, and that will show you at the top, when that build was created. If the date there is 12/23/08 (I think that is the date, or near then), then it should be the correct one for SoD. If the date there is this year, then you somehow got a patched client.
It is possible that your account is just having issues on the tsahosting.net Login Server, as there are known bugs that seem to hit certain accounts and they are still trying to work that out. Normally, if you try another account, it should work. I suggest trying to connect to PEQ or Storm Haven before you try your own server, just so you can verify your client is correct. Also, you can try the projecteq.net Login Server if your EQEmu account is old enough that you can convert it to their Login Server.
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