I shall not give up.
After alot of port forwarding and firewall collapsing, figured out it can't be router. I've had the drivers for windows and graphics card update, of course. But now i'm thinking i might have to roll back the graphics card drivers to an earlier set.
Dunno why the character select screen would load up fine and the world would crash though. Makes no sense to me.
I spoke to Sony Online Entertainment about it and they just said that Mac makes fake Windows BIOS with Bootcamp and can't support the issue. (I think this was a cop out by the support guy) - others have made it work, so can I!
