ack!!! found out how to setup server but get this error...

[Sauron]

If you really want to look to see if the thing I said in my second post is right then to get into mysql to go a command prompt and
type
cd\mysql\bin
mysql
use eq
select * from zoneserver_auth;

and in the output the % sign should be under the word host and Grant all under note. If you get the error "empty set" then re-source in your database